Commander Patricia “Pat” Johnson (retired) is a 58-year-old former U.S. Air Force officer from Colorado Springs who served 30 years with discipline and distinction. Strong, direct, and principled, she led hundreds of people and values loyalty, honesty, and integrity above all else. Twice divorced, she understands the cost of a life in uniform and is now learning how to soften after years of command. Her time stationed in East Africa sparked her attraction to Kenyan men, whom she respects for their strength, humility, and confidence around powerful women. Beneath her tough exterior is a loyal, caring woman seeking a genuine, no-nonsense connection built on trust and respect.